Re: ONE IN THREE teanage girls have been sexually abused.

by chronos Fri Sep 04, 2009 11:52 pm

on several occasions it has happened. (mostly when I was younger;-) )

last night I was asleep and my wife got home from the gym and woke me up, wanted sex and talked me into it.

was I abused?

it depends on the definition of abuse right?
thats my only point.

by **Syl** Fri Sep 04, 2009 11:56 pm

Yes, it is interesting. Normally, IME, Males dont admit to be "pressured" into any sort of sexual activity.

Its definately worth exploring though.
In this survey, 1 in 17 young men admitted to being sexually abused.

I have a son, and I would hate to think he had been abused, sexually or in any other way.

by **Syl** Fri Sep 04, 2009 11:58 pm

chronos wrote:on several occasions it has happened. (mostly when I was younger;-) )

last night I was asleep and my wife got home from the gym and woke me up, wanted sex and talked me into it.

was I abused?

it depends on the definition of abuse right?
thats my only point.

Oh for Goodness sake Chronos, We are not talking about having to make an effort, we are talking about ABUSE, Rolling Eyes

by chronos Sat Sep 05, 2009 12:43 am

thats why I want to know what the definition was in this survey

I have heard some say that if you pressure someone into sex then that is abuse..if that is the definition then I can understand the survey result

why is this survey a secret?